(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); ok so i really like this girl at my school and i really like her personality too but we barely get to talk and her mum works at the school so ye pretty awkward. so how should i like approache her help me pls.

This is a gaming forum, you know? Ask a close friend these things, not a gaming forum..

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Well Ill give you my personal input on your situation.

Shes a girl with a mother that works at the school. THINK about it. How many guys have the balls at your school to go up to her and have a casual conversation? Little to none at all. You want to impress her right? Then show her that youre not like those ordinary kind of guys that are afraid to reveal themselves.

Go on and show her your unique personality. Its best to discover and get to know her. Im sure she would appreciate your interest in her regardless if her mother works at the school or not.

If your in elementary, then everything gets better for you. If your in highschool/College, then its a great way to introduce yourself to her mother.

You cant let small things like this cease your chances. Other fellow guys miss out because they dont have the courage to go forth and do what youre doing: Testing your confidence.

This is an excellent way to test your personality. The comfort of it may be "awkward" but it'll settle like sticks in mud in no time. Just show confidence, and dont be doubtful. After all, girls love it when guys are great with family, such as talking to parents and even children. Guys need confidence. Its essential in a relationship. After all youre the guy, you need to do the leading a majority of the time.

Hope Ive helped and good luck!

thanks but can you tell me like wat to say to her and like should i do it face to face or on fb or msn can you please like give me a list of things to do/say and for how long thanks rlly appreciate it

Sure of course.

Rule one: In person is always the best method.
Messaging on facebook maybe random and even pretty creepy. This goes for asking her out on msn, facebook, aim, email, or on the phone/ text. Doing so will show you have no self confidence. AVOID these things. In person is the way to go.

Rule Two: Girls love attention and surprises.
Be original and creative. Surprise her every once in a while. ONLY if she is interested as well; otherwise, you may just scare her away. If she does like you then go for it. Surprises here and there once in a while keeps her entertained and hooked. Itll also give you that sparkle.

Rule Three: Public Attention
Its far more cute/romantice if you do things in public. No I do not mean PDA ALL THE TIME. Maybe once in a while is good. (Depends, on your age/grade, otherwise it would be considered inappropriate). DO NOT DO ANYTHING SEXUAL IN FRONT OF FAMILY (like her mother). I mean asking her out for valentines in person, or giving her cake and flowers on her birthday or something that reassemblies your commitment to her.

Anyways, public attention is good because shell realize that you do care. Girls love attention. Asking them out in front of everyone is a great way to pay your respects to her.

Rule Four: Dont focus on Sex/Sexual Content
Trust me, you dont want to revolve your conversations on sex. Not that you will. But these rules and guidelines apply for Before and During a relationship. When it comes, it will come. Just let it be.

Rule Five: Humor
A good relationship has humor. Dont be TOO serious. A joke for a laugh or two would be nice. Stay away from pranks though! You want to appeal to her interest. What is her favorite hobby? Interests? Etc. Revolve around that as itll keep her enticed. If she smiles and laughs, then keep the pace. Dont joke too much, or be serious too much. Keep it just right otherwise it may offend her or allow her to loose interest because youre a jerk or just to stubborn to be entertaining. She doesnt want to see you as that "Boring Boyfriend that I regret going out with".

Rule Six: Her, not you.
You would want to talk about something she is into. If you like sports and she likes music, talk more about something in the arts, or why she finds it intriguing. Let the conversation roll. If she likes to talk more than you do, then let her. Dont talk about yourself, otherwise youll look cocky. Its okay if she expresses her self, that means she trusts you with her emotions.

Beware: If she talks about makeup, just try to be sincere, but avoid it. If you talk about too many girl stuff like Makeup then shell just see you as a Gay Best Friend.


I cannot tell you exactly what to say otherwise you'll be me and not you. You will have to think about the relationship in order for it to work. You need to have your OWN style. I cannot help you on the specifics of what to say but these rules/guidelines should help you.

I probably missed something or two. If I did, go ahead and ask away.

Remember, you are focusing on building your confidence. Doing so will allow you to lead your way to strengthen your relationship with one another.

Don't accidentally grab her boob. I can't tell you how many times that happened to me in high school.

Lmfao =D .

i think u should make the move