(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Hey Guys,

i just want your opinion on something.

i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now, and we have been through so much shit. Deaths, Divorces ( her parents ) all sorts of shit.

when her mum and dad broke up it was horrible. The dad left then 2 weeks later a new man was coming in the house most days. Arguments occurred for all sorts of reasons. i lost my 2 grandads in the space of a year. i have nearly lost my dad and brother and i nearly went from a heart attack.

i have problems with my heart/rib cage due to stress and worry.


me and my girlfriend are so close due to everything that went on, and we know that we are not going to leave each other. we are both 20, we both work and get paid pretty well.


we are looking at flats and viewing them etc.

I am looking to propose to her because it feels right. theres no rush or doubts in my head. i dont want to end up on jeremy kyle :lol:


I just want some sensible feedback please

3 years is a very long time, in my opinion I'd slide her into it, get a few gifts then bring her somewhere and propose, show her she means the world to you. Congratulations!!

Go for it mate, you are both due abit of happiness in your lives and if you know it feels right then it probably is the right time.

Just don't stress over it otherwise you will end up having a heart attack. :p

cheers guys, it means alot, i like people telling me what they think because we dont all think the same ^^

Hope you have a great life with her

1. Take her for a meal
2. Propose
3. Have kids
4. ????
5. Happy life.

OOH Friend your sig makes me giggle lmfao. Again thanks for all the comments guys. it does mean alot