(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); I'm in need of some serious advice.

Some of you guys may have noticed me mention about this in the sb last night. Well I'm having an issue with this girl...well she isn't just some girl, she's my bestfriend and the love of my life.

Recently she and I went to an amusement park together, we saw a friend of ours. She worried about if this girl was going to spread rumors, since she has a boyfriend and I explained to her she wouldn't.Well that isn't the problem, just a little background info, the problem..actually I don't know if its a problem, is the night we went to the amusement park she told asked me if it was wrong to flirt with someone she sees as a brother, but has feelings for. Remember she has a boyfriend. I knew she was talking about me, so I told her we aren't blood related so No.

Last night we were talking and now she's probably coming over Sunday. Which makes me the happiest guy on Earth, but she has a boyfriend. Oh and I forgot to add that night she asked me that, she told me she wanted to kiss me during one of the rides and I told her I wanted to, too.

She told me we're eachother's dirty secret. Guys I'm at this moral vs desire war. I don't know what to do, this girl is the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with, but do I really want to start our relationship in secrecy? I'm just majorly confused.

Could someone please give me some sort of advice.

EDIT: I don't know how I forgot to mention this and I'm not even sure if it matters, but when I asked her why we don't go out, she told me because she sees me as a brother, but has deep feelings for me. She just doesn't wanna mess up our friendship. Because she loves me too much. I asked her if she saw us together in the future, she told me she does. Also I understand a lot of you guys aren't meaning to insult her, but she is a wonderful person, I love her more than anything in the world and she the same, I know she would never do anything to purposely hurt me. I would never do anything to purposely hurt her. I love her. She is my gránde amoré

This kind of situation can go either way. If she is wanting to cheat on her boyfriend with you imagine what she will do if or when you guys start dating. But if you feel like she is the right one then keep her and hope to go that she wont cheat.

Thanks Warlock. I'm not gonna mark as best answer simply because I want some more opinions.

It's as simple as this. She's clearly showing signs she wants you, at least temporarily, right? However, she's also referring to you as a "dirty little secret". If she was really that into you, she would have dumped her boyfriend. Ask her if she's serious about wanting to be with you, because right now it sounds like she's still wanting to keep you a secret, which isn't gonna fly. At all.

Thanks Grape. I'll keeep that in consideration as well. I'm just nervous about questioning her because I don't wanna mess this up. I'm just an emotional wreck right now (When it comes to this)

OK so first off you should ask her who she likes more, you or her boyfriend. Tell her how you really feel about her, but don't ask her to cheat on her boyfriend with you, as that gives a bad impression. It also shows that if she does she can't really be trusted in later life.

Only really bit of advice I can say is to tell her your true feelings for her.

Irish I really appreciate that. We have already told eachother our feelings. I just want to be with her, her boyfriend may be moving soon. So I don't know. They've been fighting a lot and he's an alcoholic, and he constantly ignores her texts and makes up an excuse why he didn't reply. I just want to be with her. She makes me happy. She saved my life twice. I almost committed suicide, but she helped me out of it. I know it isn't one of those things where I'm in love with what she did for me because before that I loved her.

I'm not saying bad mouth her boyfriend to her, but maybe mention that she needs someone better, or if she talks to you about him drinking or not replying to her texts that no guy should treat a girl like that. If she brings up something about her boyfriend when your talking to her, just for instance;

"He doesn't reply to my texts"

You should say something like;

"That's not write, if he really cared about you like I do, he'd stop whatever he's doing and make sure he texts you back, that's what I would do"

My personal favorite (I don't know if your from EU/NA) but if your from EU my favorite is "I'd pause FIFA to text you back any day" lol. Most guys over here would throw there phone at a wall if they kept getting texts or phone calls while trying to play FIFA.

The most important thing in your situation is to not let everything change, don't make it awkward between you two, just act like you normally would if shes your best friend and you haven't told her how you feel, and then bring it up at appropriate times.

She's cheating on the guy because she has feelings for you, ignore what T7 said. It's not like she wants to have sex with you every night, she legitimately likes you; That's why she's flirting with you. Tell her that you'll be able to make it serious if she breaks up with her boyfriend. Until then, just sorta flirt with her but don't do anything stupid.

Thanks Irish, Alfa, Warlock, Grapes, and anyone who at least viewed this page. It means a lot that you guys are helping me with this. I'm editing the post real quick to add something I forgot to mention.

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Sorry guys the formatting got messed up again because I'm on my phone. I'll fix it when I'm on a computer.