Post: Girl Trouble
03-15-2013, 12:56 AM #1
Dope.
Endure and Survive.
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Before anyone trolls me or says grow balls, get a life and all that shit, I'm just going to say now I'm sure many people have been in this position before and I'm not some 12 year old kid, I'm 19.

Basically there's this girl that I've always liked since the beginning of time but never made a move because I wasn't sure how she would feel, people said she liked me and I basically had no idea what was happening and didn't know if she like me or didn't. So basically a couple of years ago now we were at a party and we were almost about to hook up when some stupid **** decided to run out on the road and get hit by a car so everyone immediately ran to him to see, anyway it didn't happy afterwards and we never talked about it, I then went on to dating another girl but always have felt something for her, we hardly talk anymore but she lives really close to me and works part time at the mall I always go to, do you think it's too late to do anything about it? Should I go up to her and talk to her? I know it sounds like I'm a pussy but I get nervous around her and we haven't spoke in a while and I have no clue what to say :(

Any advice?
Thankyou.
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Pichu
03-15-2013, 02:41 AM #2
zVirus
Haters Gonna Hate
Originally posted by Dope. View Post
we hardly talk anymore but she lives really close to me and works part time at the mall I always go to, do you think it's too late to do anything about it? Should I go up to her and talk to her? I know it sounds like I'm a pussy but I get nervous around her and we haven't spoke in a while and I have no clue what to say


It seems to me it would come off a bit creepy that you know where she works but haven't talked to her for 2 years lol. Anyways I think you should focus on rekindling the friendship before trying anything more.
03-15-2013, 04:30 AM #3
Dope.
Endure and Survive.
Originally posted by zVirus View Post
It seems to me it would come off a bit creepy that you know where she works but haven't talked to her for 2 years lol. Anyways I think you should focus on rekindling the friendship before trying anything more.


Thanks for replying, the only reason I know where she works is cos we still see each other when walking around, se always smiles at me when I walk past, but it seems a bit awkward, thanks for te help man, I might just man up and go talk to her aha
03-15-2013, 10:58 AM #4
Alt
Banned
Originally posted by Dope. View Post
Before anyone trolls me or says grow balls, get a life and all that shit, I'm just going to say now I'm sure many people have been in this position before and I'm not some 12 year old kid, I'm 19.

Basically there's this girl that I've always liked since the beginning of time but never made a move because I wasn't sure how she would feel, people said she liked me and I basically had no idea what was happening and didn't know if she like me or didn't. So basically a couple of years ago now we were at a party and we were almost about to hook up when some stupid **** decided to run out on the road and get hit by a car so everyone immediately ran to him to see, anyway it didn't happy afterwards and we never talked about it, I then went on to dating another girl but always have felt something for her, we hardly talk anymore but she lives really close to me and works part time at the mall I always go to, do you think it's too late to do anything about it? Should I go up to her and talk to her? I know it sounds like I'm a pussy but I get nervous around her and we haven't spoke in a while and I have no clue what to say :(

Any advice?
Thankyou.


Just go speak to her. Add her on Facebook if you haven't and just start speaking.

The worst that can happen is you find out shes a lesbian or something lol.

Good luck bro!

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Dope., xHeAVeN
03-15-2013, 11:01 AM #5
My Hate
At least I can fight
Originally posted by Dope. View Post
Before anyone trolls me or says grow balls, get a life and all that shit, I'm just going to say now I'm sure many people have been in this position before and I'm not some 12 year old kid, I'm 19.

Basically there's this girl that I've always liked since the beginning of time but never made a move because I wasn't sure how she would feel, people said she liked me and I basically had no idea what was happening and didn't know if she like me or didn't. So basically a couple of years ago now we were at a party and we were almost about to hook up when some stupid **** decided to run out on the road and get hit by a car so everyone immediately ran to him to see, anyway it didn't happy afterwards and we never talked about it, I then went on to dating another girl but always have felt something for her, we hardly talk anymore but she lives really close to me and works part time at the mall I always go to, do you think it's too late to do anything about it? Should I go up to her and talk to her? I know it sounds like I'm a pussy but I get nervous around her and we haven't spoke in a while and I have no clue what to say :(

Any advice?
Thankyou.


Invite her on a date to "catch up". Just say "Hey, you wanna go hang out? We haven't talked to each other in a while." She might like you but don't let her get tired of you.

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Dope.
03-15-2013, 07:25 PM #6
JP
Israeli/Palestinian Unity
Add her on Facebook and start talking to her is a good idea like Alt said, or else next time you walk by her you should stop her and tell her what you think of her and ask her out?

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Dope., Pichu
03-16-2013, 01:57 PM #7
ResistTheSun
In Flames Much?
Never to late, my advice to go talk to her.
Add her on facebook and become friends maybe friends turn into something else or a date happens.

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Dope., Pichu
03-16-2013, 08:00 PM #8
pls
Banned
haha so you come to ask a bunch of gamers?

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Dope., Pichu
03-16-2013, 08:34 PM #9
Shepleklet
u mad cuz ur ***git
My first piece of advice would be to stop being a fucking thief and change your sig! Nigga u stoal my user pic.

Second bit of advice, just fucking talk to her. HOW are you gonna find out if anything could happen if you don't? RHETORICAL QUESTION, you fucking CAN'T.

So go down to the pharmacy, get a prescription for 1 mandafuqup and start a conversation with her. If the conversation goes well, ask her out. If not, come back next week, talk again and then ask her out.

Too many kids in this situation don't do anything and regret it for the rest of their lives. I've witnessed it. Don't be one of them.

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03-16-2013, 11:18 PM #10
Sicko72
Do a barrel roll!
Go get her tiger! lol. Nah seriously be like Nike and just do it. You never know she might be shy herself, you gotta have strong body language when you approach her, let her know u aint intimidated.

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