...im also having this problem ... & it also seems to fix itself randomly ... this morning seems worse than normal. my birth date is also 1980, i don't think this is related to the issue (but im also not sure). my internet connection is strong. I've tried most (if not all) combinations of quitting, turning on and off, changing the "control level" (connected and not connected - in multiman and psn with and without patch) ... i haven't figured out the solution yet, but confirm there is an issue.
FTSO, OK! thanks