The constant thinking of death is enough to drive someone insane. To quote Steve Jobs:
"No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don’t want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life’s change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true."
In all honestly this is how I feel about life and death. It's nothing that you can avoid, and it should be that way.
The only feelings that actually scare me are the afterlife. Is there one? Is there just nothing? Could we come back as something else? What is after life?
These are the questions that are universal to every human being, whether they are religious or non-religious they are still dying to know. I think that at the end of the day being scared is not going to change something that it doomed to happen anyways. You need to understand to concept that life is short, and life is fragile. Life isn't going to be waiting around for you until you decide to do something with it, it's just there, ticking away. One day we will die, and this is the way of the world.
People who say that others who accept death in such manner are in my books, living a life filled with fear. People are good, others are bad, and yet we still share the same destinations. It's part of life. I do admit that it sucks to share such a shallow destination if you lived a good and love giving life, but there could still be elements that we do not comprehend. For example, it is still possible for there to be some type of afterlife. No one knows what this place is, or if it even exists until they die, and it is still important that people understand that life isn't a waste of time just because we die.
I know that I am going to die someday, does that mean that I will curl up in a ball, cry, and say that life is pointless and there is no reason to do good things because we are all going to die anyways? NO!
Death is something that people need to accept. I personally don't think there is a point in worrying about these things, in fact the more serious thing that people often forget is that:
What is going to happen to your loved ones and family etc. when you die?
This is a more important question to me, and it's important to address this question. My parents, and grandparents already have a will, because they know that one day they will die, and it will be my turn to step in, reproduce, and life a life just like they did. I will still have fond memories of them, and I may cry, I may feel that the world is unfair for taking such good people away from me, but I know that it's going to be a destination that I will also one day have to face. Whether there is an afterlife or not, you must live life to the fullest of your ability, and worrying over something that is doomed to occur anyways is a lost cause.
Worry not about what will happen to you, because you know that. Worry about your loved ones, and worry that they soon will one day have to die, just like you will.
So in the end. No, I am personally not scared of death. It's something that I have to accept because it's not something I will be able to control. I will have to die. So will everyone on this earth. It's the way of the world, and to think that death is just a kick to the balls while your down, isn't true.
Life is beautiful. Death has it's own purpose, and that is to make room for other people to have their own beautiful lives, and they too will one day die.
To conclude:
Death will step into my life, may it happen when it's needed.