you've tried this right:
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also, if you can, put a network switch in-between your lag switch and your ps3:
modem/router-----(s)-----network switch-----------ps3
...and don't listen to the post above me because he has no idea what he's talking about. i have a modem/router combo as well, and i get more lag time than 99% of the people here.